Your secret is safe with me…

So you’ve stumbled on the unopened secrets of your own desire. It’s time to crack you open, let those secrets out to play.

I am Mistress Viola Parker, a longtime lifestyle player with over 8 years of professional domination under my garters. I started working professionally at The Gates in the SF Bay Area and for the last 4 years in Portland. But my roots in BDSM run deep. From a young age, I’ve been exploring the dual sides of my dominant interests: sensation and deprivation, pain and pleasure, fear and indulgence, latex and lace, leather and silk. And I’ve always been interested in subverting the expectations of gender: I’m not your girl next door but maybe YOU are.

I’ll encourage you to edge your boundaries, walk the line, expand it.

I am an extremely verbal Mistress and will coax you into submission with ease, amused at how easy it is to instigate your various forms of submission, to watch how you crumble in the presence of my natural dominance, resistance draining…

I believe strongly in the power of BDSM to transform; in submission there is release. I have a deep respect for those in any stage of BDSM exploration. I enjoy the process of discovering mutual interests, fetishes, and fantasies. Lucky for you I have a long list of obsessions and interests.

I also very much enjoy working with couples, providing mentorship and coaching for those looking to explore BDSM with their partners. If you are looking to get coaching on being a better dominant, I have a cis-female pro submissive I work with who we can co-dominate together to practice and hone your skills.

I take sessions in a fully equipped, discreet playspace in the Portland Metro area. I will need adequate notice to plan and book a session. I require respectful letters of inquiry (complete the form on the contact page).

Please take the time to read through my site completely to see if I am the right Mistress for you.