I offer coaching to individuals and couples in my fully equipped dungeon, Sub Rosa. Co-owned by the iconic Natasha Strange, Sub Rosa was designed by the two of us to be a kinky oasis, very much with the user in mind. It is fully equipped, approachable while offering some intense and complex bondage gear, and impeccably maintained and cleaned.

Couples Coaching

Sub Rosa is available for rent privately by couples we have vetted — so people who are new and seeking guidance will often book coaching to gain insight on how to best use the space.

For this goal I recommend the “Coach & Play” package which is 90 minutes of coaching + 90 minutes of private play time in the dungeon (three hours of dungeon time total, generally the space rents for $90/hour). I offer this three hour dungeon experience for $500.

If coaching doesn’t feel right at this time I recommend starting with one of our many classes at Sub Rosa or our next FemDom Bootcamp (these happen monthly and are geared to femmes).

If you and your partner are seeking more active play and a fantasy scene with a dominatrix, you are probably seeking a session, where I am dressed in fetishwear or lingerie. With coaching I do not present this way, and the focus is education rather than heavy play.

To book my time and plan a coaching session (or a pro-domination session!) you'll need to give me a sense of your desires and experience level (for both you and your partner) on my Contact Form. I can direct our coaching to focus on specific practice as well, just let me know your needs.

I often do coaching and group teaching with Natasha Strange (pictured above), if private coaching is not right for you at this time I recommend one our many classes, we have new offerings every month.

Mentorship

I am often asked if I do mentorship by folks seeking to enter the world of professional domination; I do this at my coaching rate of $200/hour. Natasha Strange and I teach a class several times per year called Pro-Tips for Pro-Dommes which is the best place to start. I have, in the past, taken on mentees for trade or without hourly compensation but these are folks who have put the time in, attending my events and classes, or volunteered support in other ways, and I vet them carefully. I take mentorship seriously and don’t often have the capacity, so I take on mentees sparingly.

Dominatrix Life Coaching • Long-Term Training

Some of my submissives have entered into ongoing monthly agreements/contracts where we set goals and I hold them accountable to these goals. I generally have them log daily in a spreadsheet or app and check in weekly, as well as having at least 2 hours of either in-person or remote session time per month, to receive their rewards/punishments based on their performance and improvement.

Coaching/training starts at $800/month. I will need trust and consistency to begin training and I take on limited trainees of this nature, and these programs are customized to each dynamic. Read client responses and reflections from their sessions/coaching/training on my Praise Page.

Coaching Rates

My coaching rate is $200 hour. For coaching I recommend at least two hours. I will require a deposit to reserve my time and my playspace. Deposits are generally $50 for coaching and I accept deposits via the payment platforms below. I generally prefer the balance in cash at the time of the session, but if you need to use one of these other payment processors, just let me know prior to doing so.

Payment Options
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